she went to him and said she didn’t want someone like me

She lied to me that she have no family. she went to him and said she didn’t want someone like me. As the months and years roll on, we tend to slink into our proverbial sweatpants and get lazy in our relationship. We lose our patience, gentleness, thoughtfulness, understanding, and the general effort we once made toward our mate. Think back to the first year of your relationship and write down all the things you used to do for your partner. Now start doing them again. At the end of a long day, we tend to mentally check out our lives and, consequently, our relationships. We rely on the standard question, “How was your day?” But because we hear that question so often, many of us will reflexively just respond with the bare minimum: “Fine. How was yours?” This does nothing to improve your connection and can damage it because you’re losing the opportunity to regularly connect in a small way. If your initial “How was your day?” doesn’t spark many conversations, try asking more creative follow-up questions: “What made you smile today?” or “What was the most challenging part of your day?” You’ll be amazed at the answers you’ll get, with the added benefit of gaining greater insight into your significant other.